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MY TOPIC THIS WEEK: Why Confidence Is Important to Happiness

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Nov 13, 2022

According to the dictionary, the word happiness is “the emotional and mental state of well-being defined by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.” Confidence is a word that describes a feeling of self-assurance arising from appreciating your own abilities or qualities.
 
In short, happy people tend to feel good about themselves and their lives, while confident people tend to feel like they can achieve their goals. It is widely accepted that confidence plays a key role in happiness. In other words, confident people tend to be happier and more successful than those who lack confidence.
 
Here are five reasons why confidence is important to happiness.
 
 
IDEAS FROM ME:
 
Confidence Boosts Self-Esteem and Self-Worth
People who lack confidence often have low self-esteem and feel unworthy of happiness. However, when you are confident in yourself, you believe that you deserve to be happy - boosting your self-esteem. As your self-esteem grows, so does your sense of happiness.
 
Confident People Take More Strategic Risks

Taking risks is part of life. Risk taking can lead to great rewards. However, people who lack confidence are often too afraid to take risks, sometimes leading to a duller and less fulfilling life. But if you work on your confidence, you can join other confident people in taking more risks and answering the door when opportunity knocks.
 
Confidence Attracts Positive People and Opportunities
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People who lack confidence often find themselves surrounded by negative people and situations. As a result, they give off an aura of insecurity, attracting negativity. In contrast, confident people tend to attract positive people and opportunities into their lives.
 
Confidence Allows You To Enjoy Life More                                                                     

                 
When you lack confidence, you constantly worry about what others think of you and whether or not you are good enough. A lack of confidence takes from your enjoyment of life. When you are confident, you can relax and enjoy life more
 
Confidence Leads To Success
 
Confident people achieve more goals than those who lack confidence. This is because they believe in themselves and their ability to succeed. When you lack confidence, it is harder to do anything to achieve your goals. When you are confident, you are more likely to take action because you believe in your plan.
 
These reasons why confidence is vital to happiness should motivate you if you feel you need to work on your confidence level. To sum up: if you want to be happy, start by increasing your confidence level. Then, take risks, surround yourself with positive people, and enjoy life more. Soon, you will see that confidence does lead to happiness.
 
 
FROM THE PROFESSIONALS:

“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.” – Peter. T McIntyre
 
“Confidence is the willingness to be as ridiculous, luminous, intelligent, and kind as you really are, without embarrassment.” – Susan Piver                                
 
 
 
HOMEWORK
 
What is the difference between the attitude of people with high and low self confidence?
 

 
See you in class,

Dante
 
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