How to cope with the pandemic and lockdown

Audrey オードリー

It has been one year since Canada's first Covid 19 case.  Our lives changed since then.  Throughout the whole year, the new coronavirus has been the main topic on the news and
conversations between people.  It is hard not to go crazy after a while.  Sometimes, I want to know the developements and sometimes I don't even want to hear anything
that is Covid-related.  I wonder if most people feel this way.

Aside from worrying about being infected with the new coronavirus, many are struggling with working at home and taking care of the kids who are doing online learning at home.

The gyms are closed and lack of exercise makes us tired and maybe a bit depressed.  Exercise is very important to mental health.

Toronto winters are cold, but I still try to take a walk even though it is -2 or 3 degrees.

So, what should we do to cope with this pandemic and lockdown situation?

First of all, try NOT to think that you are in a bad situation.  If you set your mind to believe that life is miserable, then you will be miserable.   
 
Try NOT to think of the things you cannot do, such as going to the gym, eating out with your friends, going to karaoke, etc.   If you keep thinking what you could be doing if not for the pandemic, you will start feeling sorry for yourself and eventually you will be depressed.

Try focusing on the things that you CAN do.  Working from home means you can save time and money commuting.  If the kids are home, try to set boundaries with them.  Explain to them that you need to work and set a break time to take care of them.

If you have spare time, start some new hobbies.  Learn a new language, learn to make new dishes,learn flower arrangement, anything...

If you are not interested in learning anything, that's fine.  Is there anything that you have wanted to do but didnt' have time before?  Maybe you have taken many photos over the years and haven'thad time to organize them?  Now is the time to organize them.  Throw away old clothes
and make some room in your closet.  Declutter your home.  Reorganize the room.

If you miss your friends, talk to them on Zoom, Skype or Facetime.  Take a walk together. Go to the supermarket together, but keep a safe distance.

What you SHOULDN'T do is, feel pressured to attend a drinking party or a night out with your friends or co-workers.  

You are putting your own health and your family's health at risk.  

Either turn down the invitation, or accept the invitation and then cancel it in the morning saying you have caught a cold.







Added to Saved

This column was published by the author in their personal capacity.
The opinions expressed in this column are the author's own and do not reflect the view of Cafetalk.

Comments (0)

Login to Comment Log in »
Premium ribbon

from:

in:

Lesson Categories

Language Fluency

Chinese   Native
English   Near-Native
Japanese   Daily conversation

Audrey オードリー's Most Popular Columns

  • Black sesame seed and black hair

    Many of us are looking for a magic pill to darken grey hair, and to reverse the greying process. ...

    Audrey オードリー

    Audrey オードリー

    0
    9533
    Dec 27, 2017
  • Recipe for healthy snack bar

    I have been looking for a healthy snack bar for a long time, and haven't found the right one. ...

    Audrey オードリー

    Audrey オードリー

    2
    9458
    Sep 28, 2017
  • Stay healthy with my Nutrition and Wellness Class

    Hi, I am an English tutor on Cafetalk, as well as a nutrition and wellness tutor.  Please chec...

    Audrey オードリー

    Audrey オードリー

    0
    9009
    Dec 1, 2017
  • "I am cool"

    Well, I am not saying I am cool, as in かっこいい.   I am not narcissistic. ^ _^  I want ...

    Audrey オードリー

    Audrey オードリー

    3
    8637
    Oct 10, 2017
« Back to List of Tutor's Column
Got a question? Click to Chat