Confidence Coaching: Become the Version of You That Shows Up
Description
Most people don't lack ability. They lack a system, and they have a voice in their head that undercuts them at the exact moment it matters.
This is a coaching session for that.
What we work on
The inner voice. How you talk to yourself when you fail is the highest-leverage thing you can change. Most people are running a script they never chose. We look at yours and rewrite it.
Habits that survive week three. Not motivation — motivation is unreliable and everyone knows it. Design: making the good thing easy and the bad thing slightly annoying.
Goals that are actually goals. "Be more confident" is a wish. We turn it into something with a shape, a next action, and a way to tell whether it's working.
Showing up. Speaking in meetings, disagreeing with a senior colleague, asking for what you want, being the one who goes first. These are skills. They're trainable.
The method
I hold Yale's Science of Well-Being certification and the Rotary Youth Leadership Award, so this is built on research and on a leadership framework, not on slogans. I'll ask you direct questions and I'll hold you to what you said last time.
Who this is for
- Anyone in a transition — new job, new country, new stage of life
- Students and professionals who feel capable on paper and small in the room
- People who have read the self-help books and want someone to help them actually do it
Language
Available in English or Brazilian Portuguese. If you want to work on yourself and practise a language at the same time, that's a very efficient hour.
An honest note
This is coaching, not therapy or medical care. If you're dealing with depression, serious anxiety, or a crisis, please talk to a qualified professional — that's not a brush-off, it's simply the right person for the job. Coaching works best alongside that, not instead of it.
This tutor's cancellation policy
This lesson is “Immediately Confirmed”
If the requested date falls within 30 days, the request will be “confirmed” immediately without having to wait for the tutor to reply.
The policy “before request is confirmed” will not apply to requests that are confirmed immediately.
Before request is confirmed (fixed)
- Cancellation possible at any time without charge.
After request is confirmed (fixed)
- More than 24 hours before lesson start time.→ Cancellation is possible at any time.
- Less than 24 hours before lesson start time.→ The tutor may take a cancellation fee.
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No-Show→ The tutor may take a cancellation fee.
(Please check with the tutor for details.)
Lessons by this tutor
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Conquer Speaking Anxiety: Stop Freezing in English
For people whose English is already better than their confidence.45min 4,000P -
Coffee Chat: Just Talking.
Twenty-five minutes of real company. I won't fix your grammar unless you ask.25min 1,500P -
Living Abroad: What Nobody Tells You Before You Go
Study, work and daily life in the US — from someone who did it for a decade.45min 4,000P -
Brazilian Portuguese from Zero: Speak from Day One
Real, warm, everyday Brazilian — explained clearly in English if needed.45min 4,000P -
Executive English: Presentations, Interviews & Global Careers
Sound like the person in the room whose opinion matters. Confident.50min 5,100P -
IELTS Band Booster: Score Higher Using the Real Rubric
Stop guessing what examiners want. I'll show you the actual criteria.45min 4,500P -
The English Lounge: Real Conversation, Zero Pressure
A relaxed room where you speak, I listen, and your confidence grows.45min 3,400P -
Free 15-Min Counseling: Let's Build Your Plan
Meet me, tell me your goal, and leave with a clear next step.15min 0P